You are probably not married yet, nor do you have a fiancé who is a pastor (yet). Because of this, you would probably want to stop reading the moment you saw the title. Hold on.
Ask yourself, “If you met your 15-year-old self right now, what would you tell her?” Take a minute. Tick! Tock! Tick! Tock! Done? Good! In that same vein, think about this, wouldn’t you rather know today what you might need tomorrow? Put this way, would you rather have and not need it yet than not have it till you need it?